I wrote this article a few years ago and my marriage is more powerful than ever before.
Such a world but to get to the core meaning takes courage and a good guide in my opinion.
I am in relationship with my wife for 20 years and never thought for a single moment that I can lose her. I have a mentality of trying to fix it instead of throwing it away and get a new one. I grown up with this mentality, I was fixing things all in my life, never thought otherwise. Although, this is a great mentality doesn’t necessary works all the time including relationships. Obviously, I wasn’t aware of this.
However, since my first EMF lots of change happened regarding to my mindset and how I see and experience things.
Over the years the relationship between me and my love went through great challenges and we both suffered a lot. Very recently we had a conversation where she expressed herself in a way that I understood something. Over the last decade I was trying to fix it when it wasn’t working never realizing that I wasn’t doing the right thing. I wanted to force her into something that she might doesn’t want any more. I kept our relationship locked because I was in fear to lose it. I was always maintaining when a problem was coming to the surface but when she said that she lost feelings towards me and that I can’t give to her what she is looking for I was so broken and confused. All what I believed was falling apart but instead of falling into pain and sorrow I grow out of this.
Why?
A huge part of the EMF program creating transformation around relationships and unconditional love. I was dwelling for months on Peter Sage’s quote on it.
“Unconditional love is a deep caring of others regardless of their behaviour and completely irrespective of my needs and expectations of them”
I felt the power of these worlds deeply in my heart, but I couldn’t comprehend to them.
Then after my Dear expressed her feelings one night, I went to sleep with the prepared intention (I teach this in EMF) to get answer for the hardest situation I was facing emotionally.
I woke up at night and the message was there, and clear. At the beginning of our relationship, I had a need to hold the relationship in one piece as she was in the energy of comfort. We have been a good match and it worked well for years. But things has changed over the years (as they do 😊 ) I realized that I was holding her in prison because of her comfort level and was holding her back from growth.
I come to peace with the feeling that if I really love her, I won’t tie her into the comfort of marriage that will last. I love her more than that and from my heart I was able to let her go and grow.
What would this create on the physical level I don’t know, what I know is that this is the right thing to do and I feel so calm and relaxed with this and looking forward to apply the great amount of wisdom I learned from EMF. 💖
“Life is a growth centric experience and not a comfort centric one”. Thank you Peter and for the EMF program that has changed me, changed my life, my relationships the people around me and is changing lives every day.
To change the reality start with a decision and to make actions towards its realization. I found that a good roadmap (EMF) is handy on this journey we call life.
Tell me what is the reality you want to live in? Drop me a message and have a chat 😊
